“We went to this new sea because it is necessary to gain new knowledge and to win new rights, and they need to be won and used to advance all people. It is so deeply ingrained in our belief system and collective psyche. we do not even stop to think, and, on the one hand, this is correct, but, on the other hand, it is underestimated what it is.
This means thinking that you are always right and never taking people’s advice to heart. Likewise, it is unhealthy to always rely on people’s opinions and never judge yourself. You will not learn anything from life if you think you are always right.
Well, to begin with, if you’re wrong, then you really are wrong, with all the sense of humiliation and failure that comes with it. If I have to be right, and we have different points of view, it is obvious that you are wrong. As a marriage counselor, I often ask people if they would be right or happy. While almost everyone says they would prefer happiness, battle dictates good or evil.
The right person doesn’t just have to meet the criteria of your desires, and vice versa, if two people are moving in the wrong direction of each other, if one person is more willing than the other to calm down, or has to deal with their own unfinished business and inability to maintain the needs of the relationship time, it is inevitable that the relationship will end, and the resistance will end badly. When you date someone you think is the right person at the wrong time, it’s tempting to change yourself and your goals to meet the criteria you think the relationship will last. If you keep hitting someone until they flinch and accept your point of view, you are probably not very happy with the state of your current relationship, or you secretly need this confirmation to feel good. Having to always be right can ruin your relationships with other people, for example embarrassing your spouse by arguing about irrelevant issues that no one cares about.
In all areas of life, you find yourself defending your beliefs, discussing how you remember what happened, and trying to influence others to see things your way. The way you “see” yourself, others, and the world you live in will be filled with what you have experienced or believe to be true. Open your heart to who you are at the moment, not who you want to be. Never make the one you love feel lonely, especially when you are around.
There will inevitably be times in your life when you may need to strengthen boundaries with others, and eventually you will want to feel understood, appreciated, and happy. There are so many examples of how everyone is different, and yet finding a common ground on which everyone feels heard, each person’s beliefs are valid and all points of view are recognized is what brings people together. “And if we can’t end our divisions now, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity.
We must admit that sometimes things go wrong, even if we try our best to prevent it from happening. If you think you are always right, you cannot correct your mistakes or omissions correctly. People will always make mistakes, but acknowledging those mistakes and admitting that he was wrong will encourage people to try to use it against you. A person who feels the need to be always right will often find it difficult to admit that they are the problem and transfer their responsibility to someone else who does not belong to them.
This need to be right may be a defense mechanism that helped this person get through everything they went through and what was needed at the time, but it is destructive to any healthy relationship. This compulsion to be right distracts us from life, interferes with learning and happiness. People with mental health problems, such as anxiety disorder, may feel the need to always be right in order to keep things in mind and their lives to be simple and predictable.
In other words, sometimes “the wrong time” is associated with more incompatible values, needs, and life goals at any given moment than literal time. However, keep in mind that what constitutes the “wrong” time is different for everyone.
While some people might say that love conquers all, relocation, job change, family drama, personal stress and countless other aspects, oh, I don’t know, being a healthy adult may seem impossible. make appointments. Dealing with unfinished business, when you think you met the right person at the wrong time, effectively making them the wrong person, can be difficult and painful. If the relationship is starting to take its toll on your mental health, or if you’re feeling pressured, ashamed, or leaning back to “make it work,” it may be time to leave. When we meet the right person at the wrong time, we feel like we lack beauty.
Knowing and feeling and therefore sadness is a human condition. We need to change our feelings: when we realize that we might have done something wrong, learn to be proud rather than ashamed, or learn to be curious rather than defensive when faced with information that contradicts our beliefs. Our life is the greatest teacher, and we must enthusiastically learn from her every time.
Meeting the right person at the wrong time is an opportunity to learn these life lessons, and over time, most people tend to look back and appreciate the reasons why things have changed. They evolved the way they did. The difference today is that I really tend to look at mistakes not as a personal failure, but as an opportunity to learn and grow. For a long time, I openly accepted people’s opinions and even tried my best to ask them.
But I was beginning to believe that several times in my life, if you’re lucky, you might meet someone who is exactly the right fit for you. If you know something useful and truthful, take a moment to say it. If you always think that you are right and express your opinion to everyone and every time, you will only repeat what you know.
Everyone has a grain of truth, and many people are right in many ways. They may not “need” to be right all the time for any good reason other than that they are often right (in a practical sense). They don’t need to hear anything about what someone has to say about this, because they already know the answer – whatever they know.